3 days ago3 minWhere does all this go?A couple of months ago I started using a bullet journal. I find it quite useful to organise my chaotic and creative mind and balance it...
May 62 minCheck this before you get into the roomAnger is just a feeling. It’s what we do with it that’s the problem. When people don’t control their anger, it can be dangerous. When I...
Apr 252 minThe optimal zone in a conversationYou can’t change people (and believe me, I’ve tried very hard). Change is always self-directed. I know you know this, but if you listen...
Mar 313 minThis is how to ask when you don't have powerHow do you ask for what you want when you are not in a position of power? How do you ask when the other person has the authority and the...
Feb 282 minDon't find your niche too earlyHave you heard that it takes about 10,000 hours of practice to become a pro? Well, it seems this doesn’t always work. Not unless you are...
Feb 163 minBecause I told you toWhat would you say if you were asked to administer electric shocks to a person you don’t know just because he gave you the wrong answer...
Jan 281 minHow to get it rightThere is a way of getting it right in every single conversation. Or maybe not? Do reward and punishment influence behaviour? How can we...
Jan 142 minIt doesn't need to be complexDid you notice the speed of change? It’s creating massive communication challenges. Some of these are related to the level of stress and...
Jan 33 minSticking to what really matters One of the narratives that have emerged strongly this year for me has been commitment to processes and values no matter what, even when...
Dec 20, 20212 minPosition is not everything One of the first things you learn in any negotiation training is never to negotiate straight away on positions. To which I add, avoid...